Divorce After 11 Years, Kandi Burruss Sheds More Light on Her Divorce from Todd Tucker

In late November 2025, Kandi Burruss made the hard decision to end her marriage with Todd Tucker after 11 years of being together. The news came as a shock to many, and Kandi also shared that it hasn’t been easy staying calm in the public amidst the emotional turmoil.

The couple did not only share love but also children, business, and public celebrations. On Nov. 21, she confirmed the split in a statement, saying:

“After deep thought and a lot of prayer, I’ve made the decision to move forward with a divorce. This is a difficult and emotional time…”

She added that her focus now is on “protecting her peace, being the best mother she can be, and co-parenting with love and respect.”

She said she’s stepping into a “new chapter,” and it will be one that focuses on her work, family, and her personal growth.

The couple’s history goes way back. They met during the fourth season of The Real Housewives of Atlanta (RHOA) in 2011, got engaged in 2013, and they eventually got married in April 2014.

Over the years, they built not only a family, but also businesses together: a soul-food restaurant chain, a trucking company and even a reality-TV show that is centered around their lives.

So when Kandi says the divorce was “brewing for a while,” she isn’t exaggerating. On Nov. 24, during a Amazon Live session, she confessed:

“This is something that has been brewing for a while.” Then added: “All the times you’ve seen me smiling online meant nothing. I’ve been going through it. Life has been life-ing me.?”

She admitted that the process of separating hasn’t been easy. Some days, she’s okay. Some days… she’s not. “I like to keep those moments to myself,” she said.

Still, she said she has “no regrets.” They gave it their best shot. But sometimes… things just don’t work out.

Despite It All, the Family Celebrated Blaze’s Birthday

One thing that is commendable amidst this separation is how Kandi and Todd still put their children first.

On Nov. 22, just a day after the divorce news, they celebrated their daughter Blaze Tucker’s sixth birthday. And yes, they threw a Snow White–themed party. A full-blown birthday bash at Ready, Set FUN! in Atlanta.

Photos show both parents smiling behind Blaze and their son Ace Tucker. Smiles, despite everything.

They even posted their own separate birthday tributes on social media. Kandi wrote:

“Happy birthday to my little twin @blazetucker!!! … so strong, smart, talented, creative, big personality, & a winner! My beautiful little princess!”

Todd’s message was equally heartfelt:

“Happy Birthday to my Baby Blaze! She my Beautiful little princess! …Daddy loves you with all his heart!!!”

No awkward tension. No drama in the photos, though neither included the other in their social-media carousels. Just two loving parents choosing to show up together for their child.

For many fans, this felt like a powerful statement: even in endings, love for your children doesn’t have to end. It evolves.

What Kandi Is Focusing On Now: Work, Growth, Self-Care

At 49, Kandi Burruss is entering a new phase. She may be navigating heartbreak, but she’s not standing still.

She’s openly admitting to the emotional roller-coaster. In an Amazon Live, she said she’s “up and down.” Some days, she’s hurting. Other days, she finds clarity. “Life has been life-ing me,” she said.

Her focus is now on her family including her kids, Blaze, Ace, and her eldest daughter, Riley Burruss (from a previous relationship). She will be committed to co-parenting with Tucker.

She told People that “I’m stepping into a new chapter pouring into my work, my family and my own growth,” “I’m grateful to everyone who supported us throughout the years, and I ask for privacy, grace and understanding as we navigate this transition with our family.”

Professionally? She’s not slowing down. She’s set to return to Broadway in & Juliet, starting December 6, running through March 8.

She’s also got production credits under her belt. Over the years, Kandi built a reputation as a songwriter, singer, reality TV personality, and many more. Hence, it has promises to be one rooted in self, family, and ambition.

What It All Means 

Seeing Kandi Burruss navigate this period makes you appreciate how messy, complicated, and human life can be. On the surface, it’s a “celebrity divorce.” But dig deeper… and there’s love. Respect. Intention.

Yes, marriages end. Sometimes painfully. Sometimes quietly. But the way you handle the aftermath that matters. Kandi and Todd’s decision to face the cameras, still co-parent publicly, and still celebrate their child’s joy together? That’s powerful. She also indicated that she and Tucker will be spending Thanksgiving together.

Although the reason for the divorce is not disclosed, there is still respect for each other. And for Kandi? She isn’t hiding. She’s alive. Feeling. Growing. Ready for the next act.